Thanks Donna, I actually have noticed some ppl backing away, its odd I never noticed it before you mentioned it. They dont understand that sometimes I just want to be alone. As much as I hate those crying, anxious, sad nights I think its good to allow myself to feel those emotions.

I had to see him yesterday and it was very strange. He didn't even smile once. Of course I was all smiles and nice like always, his cousin was with him and he was actually being very nice to me, but exH was mostly quiet.

I had asked him to change the spark plugs in my car because Im trying to sell it and someone was coming to see it today, and he was all annoying and said "you need to stop relying on my, i have my own life now, why dont you ask that guy your dating to do it for you, doesnt he know how?"

I didnt know I was dating someone. I had dinner with a guy friend and that was it. Now he is being all hostile toward me....he knows I have no one here, for him to act like that is ridiculous after everything he has put me through. He is the one that told me to move on? Sheesh