You have a really good and healthy attitude right now. I hope you can keep it up. You are making a lot of sense. You, and all here, deserve a lot of credit for working as hard as we do...through the pain...to try to save our marriages. Many people would just call it quits because it would be easier. We are a dedicated bunch...dedicated to our marriages and our spouses. We are also dedicated to becoming better people, better parents, and better partners. We are dedicated to learning and getting stronger too!

You are doing a good job, especially under the circumstances. You are gonna be OK...we all are. It's just gonna take some time and work!

Have a good day!


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.