I think the locking fairy has been on vacation for a month or two, and a lot of overloaded threads finally got locked last night.
It occurs to me, with the whole exhaustion thing with your H, that maybe, as BJ says, your H is so worn out from his work schedule that he simply doesn't have any energy left to expend on you. Sometimes it's like being sick...there just isn't any juice left for anything except the absolute necessities. This doesn't excuse him for not stepping up for months and months, but maybe it's a partial reason. No advice on what to do, just something to ponder.
Take care of yourself and those cute kids!
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
