I just wanted to say I totally understand where you are coming from. I feel like my H has that same issue. He cannot accept that I have and continue to love him unconditionally. But, I am not stupid either and I have done well and am trying to live my life in the best way I can....cuz at the end of the day, I will have to live it, with or without him! I can only try and prep myself for the worst possible circumstance.
But, point was that my H projects his insecurities onto me as well. I think the last time he said that I just calmly reiterated that it is his decision to leave and I am trying my best to respect him. And I think I have repeated that statement several times now. Someone told me to repeat the exact sentence and one day, he may get it.
It is such a mental game....and just exhausting on a daily basis. Its been 2 months for me and I just find this whole thing...exhausting! But, as you said no other options and I refuse to quit on myself!
