My Goals ..........

1. When H visits I will continue to initiate conversation and he will respond.

2. I will initiate hugs when I say goodbye each time I see him and monitor his comfort with these.

3. I will conatct him re my surgery and invite him to coffee to discuss. I will ask for his support.

I will continue to work on me (clothes, hair, exercise, makeup etc) and also work on keeping the house really tidy.