I am going out of town in two weeks and the kids are not going. Then, at the last minute, I mention an invite with a friend, but that having S3 would make it difficult to go, so DH offers to watch S3 before I can ask him. I DO have plans and have spent time with friends, but not out of town. Honestly, I did it to see if he would offer or decline. With it being a holiday weekend, I thought for sure that SHEWHOSHOULDNOTBENAMED would be coming to town again and I wanted to see what his response would be about having S3. I guess no visitor.
To add to this, DH ran D17 to my mom's the other day and I called her to see if there had been any calls while I was out earlier in the day. Unknown to me, I was on speaker phone and DH herd the whole convo. D17 said that a male DB friend had called (mentioned by his name). I said, in an upbeat voice, Oh cool! Is there a message, do I need to call him back? S17 said no, that he said he would call later. She then told me, later in the evening, that DH was very quiet the rest of the time in the car and even missed a few questions S3 asked him--DH had to ask S3 to repeat them.
So, I put mileage on the car and am planning on being out of the house about the time DH is supposed to get here, but pull up shortly after. I am considering having an overnight bag in the car, too, and if asked I will be vague about where I was. I also made an ATM withdrawal from our joint account while I was out driving today--in a city about an hour and a half away from home.
I am not seeing anyone, do not have any desire to, and can easily explain where I was and who I was with if I am ever asked. But right now, I do not feel he needs to know all my plans.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
