Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Someone else much wiser than me put it this way. I'm working on my next relationship. I hope that is with my W, but she may not be wise enough to know that. If not, then God has someone else out there who needs me more than my W. May not be what I want right now, but I may also end up being happier than I have ever been.


I have been approaching it that the relationship and marriage that my wife and I had is dead. I had even told her that I didn't want our old relationship/marriage as I see it wasn't very healthy/happy. What I want is a new/better relationship with her and shape it into something that we are both happy with.

That is a GREAT way you had quoted to put it. I am going to have to save that somewhere that I can see.

Thanks!


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13