Well I have pretty much blown it.My wife wanted a sep. agreement but I wanted to add terms of no dating during sep.She said forget it and said she has decided that she wants a divorce.She said she wanted time and space to decide but at the same time said she is not the marrying type.Says she would never marry again.She has been in her own place now 3 months but I know she was seeing someone else.She said it was just physical.She was sleeping with him while we were together also.I just wanted 1 simple term.I didn't believe dating someone while separated was at all beneficial to working things out.So today I texted her saying if she wants a divorce don't ever speak to me again.Then I texted her saying I'm sorry but thats just they way I am.She texted back saying to please leave her alone.We were married 13 years,together 15 and have 2 boys 10 and 12.She said I was a good man and husband and could do better than her.I just see such a change from when I first met her to now.Like 2 different people.I love her but I do not to go thru this anymore.It kills me when I know she out.Is there any chance of me salvaging this mess and possibly saving my marriage now?
