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It was the usual with us...we both wake up early, but he doesn't initiate anything. He'll snuggle but that's the extent of it. After about an hour of this, I turned away from him.


This sounds so familiar. It's a carbon copy of our sex life. Usually I just get up.

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We did end up having sex, with him having to get out of bed a few minutes later.
The together time afterwards is really important to me. However, I cannot get him to understand that this is the reason I prefer night instead of morning for sex.



Ditto. I prefer night, too, but won't turn down a morning. However, the mornings for us are limited to Sunday only.
And H is usually too tired during the week. It doesn't leave a big window of opportunity. I can't understand that if I'm willing to stay in bed in the morning, why he can't reciprocate and come to bed a bit earlier at night.

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Hope your weekend was good and that you had a "winning game" of darts.


Yes, the game was won. But since Friday there has been no indication from him that he's interested in a repeat. And to be perfectly honest, I'm afraid to request again. I tried staying awake last night till he got out of the shower, but since I'd had no indication of even the slightest hint of interest, I fell asleep. So, I have no idea what his intentions were last night.

But today is another day. I'll see what the 'climate' is this evening. I think I may suggest a game of real darts and see what happens.

Have a good one,
Barbara


Domestic Abuse Survivor since 6/26/2002