Confused, scared, tired. Help

[Done in VA]

Vito in VA where I live, it is virtually impossible for one S to move the child that far away. The judge almost always sides to have the child stay w/in a certain distance of each other bc it's in the child's best interest to be co parented by both. Have you spoken w/an A? You may want to. If this is the case, you may then want to tell your wife. This may limit her options. Maybe she'll be forced to take a harder look at the M & at least give it a go.

Of course it would be nice to have W give it a go bc she WANTS to, but the end justify the means. I have a WAW friend of mine (not on this board) that had a similar sitch "awaken" her to the fact of having to give her marriage a shot...and 5 yrs later, happily married to same man.