Quote: Did your counselor give you any advice about the frequency? I would think that us HD's would want to place the dart in the bullseye more often than our LD partners.
Actually, he did! He said that we should not limit ourselves to the twice a week frequency we had agreed on at the prevoius meeting. The reason for that being we'd hit the twice a week with ease. The C said we should request as much as we liked over the course the 2 weeks but that neither should feel guilty in saying No . . . As long as we give our spouse a reason for the No. Both my H and I agreed to this. And sure, as the HD partner I'd love to request every night but like I said, I'm not greedy and my H *is* getting back into the swing of things, so we'll take it one day at a time.
Quote: I wish my boss's wife wasn't his wife so that we could go to her; I think she'd be wonderful.
You really need someone who does not know you at all. That way they can be totally objective. My only concern with us is what happens when the sessions end? How does one keep up the momentum without someone to 'report' to? I guess I'll find out.
