i am seriously considering making up an imaginary gf. i know one person's thoughts on this already (gucci) and i know i got a huge reaction out of her 2 weeks ago when she thought i was out on a date. i believe at this point i have nothing to lose by doing so. telling her i miss her and that i care and am here for her sure hasn't been working. im starting to think i have to be 100% out of her life for her to make any decisions. i can't be her "friend" anymore. i believe i'm prepared to do that now.
any thoughts about this? i'm prepared for all responses
I suppose it depends on a person's norms/standards. With me, it is not right to actually have a GF and "date" when one is still legally M. Going out with friends or even having dinner with a friend could be legitimately innocent of any "sexual" appearances like the term "dating" implies.
I DO NOT think that making up an imaginary GF is a good idea at all. That is very immature and it will be discovered, you'll be embarrassed b/c she'll think it's funny, you'll get mad and react......and around & around you'll go again.
Stay true to yourself and to your own standards.
Sandi
sandi point taken and understood. i should have clarified earllier when i made that statement i would make it sound i'm just hanging out with a new female friend, and NOT dating her. we would just do activities (non-sexual) together. i actually have been doing alot more with my friends, male and female both lately, i just might take the opportunity to throw the female portions in a little more often.
i do not believe in actual dating while still M either. i'm not ready for it and have already turned a couple down since this whole mess arose. it's not what i want right now.
