d-day coming soon - help !

[misshim]

Act As If .... what? sorry I'm brain dead from the circles.

Act As If I'm still his friend? I do miss our small talks I have to admit.

With the holiday weekend here the last time he saw D4 was Wednesday and now he won't see her until monday. Daycare was closed Friday and it's normally his pickup day but he is off of work and too "busy" to take care of D4. I took D4 to my mother's today.

I would have thought he might have really wanted to be with her but it is all about him right now.

I really get confused about the Act As If stuff.

Act As If: I'm your friend?
The divorce won't be final (new date August 1)
The things you said to me doesn't hurt?

I've probably been told this before from people but please help.

It's very strange that he hasn't texted me some little thing but I'm sure he's still mad about the divorce being postponed.

Do you think I should just leave him alone and see if he texts me first or can I small "talk" text with him first.

I should have gotten the hang of this by now but I'm getting so confused. I don't want him to think I'm pursuing him but I really do miss our small talks.