HA! That was a great picture to imagine in my head!
I do know what you mean though. I am so there with you right now. Especially, after my H's visit, the anger has really started to set in. Maybe the reality of it all finally set in. I don't know. But, I definately have days when I am really resenting that he has left me to just deal with everything while he just walks away so that HE can "feel better". AHH! NO insight what so ever about what he is doing to his own life as well as "our" lives.
Anyways, hope you have a productive and happy day! Thanks for checking on me and I hope that you have a FAB time away from it all!