i am seriously considering making up an imaginary gf. i know one person's thoughts on this already (gucci) and i know i got a huge reaction out of her 2 weeks ago when she thought i was out on a date. i believe at this point i have nothing to lose by doing so. telling her i miss her and that i care and am here for her sure hasn't been working. im starting to think i have to be 100% out of her life for her to make any decisions. i can't be her "friend" anymore. i believe i'm prepared to do that now.
any thoughts about this? i'm prepared for all responses
I suppose it depends on a person's norms/standards. With me, it is not right to actually have a GF and "date" when one is still legally M. Going out with friends or even having dinner with a friend could be legitimately innocent of any "sexual" appearances like the term "dating" implies.
I DO NOT think that making up an imaginary GF is a good idea at all. That is very immature and it will be discovered, you'll be embarrassed b/c she'll think it's funny, you'll get mad and react......and around & around you'll go again.
Stay true to yourself and to your own standards.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
