Quote: Yes. He'd been married and divorced 3 times before we met up again. And there have been a number of failed non-marriage relationships, too. Kinda makes you wonder
Quote: Makes sense and it could be true. I do make about double the money he does, but he's assured me he has no problems with that. But maybe he just doesn't want to admit this to me, which is why I'm hoping a 3rd party can help sort this all out. Making more than him does bother him, it is a different story when a couple decides or plans for it to be that way. Ie.. house husband stays home with the kids. I always made more the the X, and did at times of unemployment become daddy daycare. Funnny thing as I get older, I have become more maternal/emmotional. Guess I am getting the wrong hormones.
Quote: As I'd mentioned before H is a very good man. I think he has demons he needs to shed in order for us to go forward with a complete marriage Actually, I think he has a very low self esteem, you have to be, from what he said about not deserving your love.
One thing, my parents D when I was 5, and I am never sure I open up after that.
Also, we were married for 26 years, and she said 1 year after we seperated the she was unhappy for 10 years. So you can say I was clueless.
