Did it look this way to you? Wow,I didnt see it that way, I saw it as being there for him for anything......he will have to change very much this man that is now my husband I dont like very much....very arrogant....IF the day ever comes... I dont want what he HAS become.....I wanted him to know if he needed to talk or prayer or whatever I was there for him....not a doormat......time will tell at the end of his journey and I will see who he really has become....for now all I did was validate his feelings never had done that before....thanks for looking into my thread...I need all the help I can get...doing pretty good most days but then there are days when I am having a giant pity party. What do you think of his girlfriend.Was it all a lie ...was he in denial that he no longer loved her... were his true feelings for her just being dormant till they reappeared...I really thought we were stronger than before when we WORKED on our marriage the second time..I feel so used sometimes...
