OK, guys, help keep me accountable. I have some new, achievable goals.



#1 - To attract some kind of interest from H.

WHAT TO DO DIFFERENT - Limit my initiation of contact w/H (while he is away working during the week) to required contact re: children.

#2 - To enjoy a non-kid event together.

WHAT TO DO DIFFERENT - Make sure I don't have any kind of "meltdowns" in his presence anymore. Smile. Enjoy. Be someone H wants to be around, w/ and w/out kids.

#3 - To have a physical presence I'm proud of.

WHAT TO DO DIFFERENT - STOP relaxing the weight loss/exercise efforts!

#4 - To allow my H to LEAD, and not PUSH from my end.

WHAT TO DO DIFFERENT - Let H make decisions. Ask him for advice. If I sense he's not comfortable w/something we're doing/deciding on, step back and allow him to have a voice.


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.