Poe, Just curious--what do you mean by a monthly cycle? My dh is the same as Granite's. He waits til I am on the verge of being furious to kick it in gear. Doesn't make me feel real desired, but it does illuminate the fact that he is deathly afraid of my temper, lol.
Also, what was it about her increased libido that made yours disappear?
Thank you so much for your thoughts; it is so helpful to me in my own marriage.