I am stunned at the lengths of time that so many of these relatively young, virile, LBH's have gone without. In both of my marriages, the first lasted 15 yrs, the second, 13 yrs. In neither marriage did we not have sex less than once a week, and obviously a lot more often most of the time.
Uh, Guys? Go forth and do whatever. I'm serious. You are far too young to be at the mercy of a frigid W.
Wow, frigid W?? I sure thought I was frigid in my M and I'm damn sure I'm not now.
My H had an awful lot to do with our intimacy problems which is what they were.
I think everyone is entitled to do what he/she wishes, obviously. But, what is the point of DB if we are going to blame and oversimplify?