Personally, if you don't care about your marriage anymore, and it won't make you feel bad later on down the line for breaking your marriage vows...even if your spouse has...then knock yourself out, if that's what you want to do! If you still care about your marriage, then don't cheat...even if your spouse has! That's my opinion, and everybody has one! It's been nearly 7 months for me. I'm still married. I still care about my marriage, even if my wife says she doesn't! I'm not gonna do it. That's my choice. If she divorces me...then on down the line, when I'm ready, I'll start dating again.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.