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[Faith2010]

S and I are heading out to my sister's after all. S arrived home last night with my parents.

H went to his parent's house yesterday. I received several text messages on how awkward it was (did not respond). One call I did not pick up but the second one I did (I know, VERY bad). H talked about coming home last night, of course he didn't. H said his family asked about S coming up there today. I indicated I would have to drop S off as I would not stay (wasn't asked to anyway). But H says he doesn't know how long he's staying so I said S will be coming with me. The way H talked, it wasn't like HE wanted S there. It upsets me that my parents drove S 11 hours to come home to be here for BIL's funeral and H can't even be here or come home to see S. I know H doesn't want to face my parents. It is now apparent to me that yesterday's blow out had more to do with the fact of what I said was the truth than not. H wanted to believe he was going to spend time with his family (in part, true) but he was really avoiding my parents.