Kinda confusing to me too, where dishonesty and game playing trump honesty and sincerity! DB'n is good and sound advice, and the principles are solid. I don't know if DB'n really includes dishonesty and game playing! I think you are strong and solid for being sensitive and straight forward! I think you can DB like a mutha...and still be honest, sensitive, and straight forward!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
