i am seriously considering making up an imaginary gf. i know one person's thoughts on this already (gucci) and i know i got a huge reaction out of her 2 weeks ago when she thought i was out on a date. i believe at this point i have nothing to lose by doing so. telling her i miss her and that i care and am here for her sure hasn't been working. im starting to think i have to be 100% out of her life for her to make any decisions. i can't be her "friend" anymore. i believe i'm prepared to do that now.
any thoughts about this? i'm prepared for all responses
I think you know my thoughts... (all based on success with these methods compared to the "be there for them method")
I have seen TWO success stories in my personal dealings off this site in the last month... (2 for 2 I might add)
Both accomplished with the same methods and routines...
They were...
Be and act happy just the way things are. Don't call them, let them call you go out with other people (date.. there is that bad word again) Enjoy friend and any hobby you may have.... When they do call.. Be polite, cut them off after some small talk with comments such as "Well, nice talking to you,but I was just__________ (leaving or in the middle "of" or anything that says you don't have time to chit chat cause you are sooooo busy)"
You people are begging for success stories and I have just given you two new ones and told you what happened and what the person did that made the other to come back.... I know you want it to be done with the "hang in there" method. I just don't see that working when I see it......Reality is what matters and not what you "hope" will work.
