Sandi2,W had an episode before we got M where she hit her mom for going to my house to talk with my mom. She has always had a violent behavior from what I hear from her family. W's parent can not do anything with her rebellious nature. When her dad tries to talk to her, she tells him to stop being a preacher and be her dad. Her father just doesn't have a backbone to stand up to her. W is presenting the same behavior as her mom. W's mom talks down on her dad and doesn't support his ministry. She just lays in the bed all day due to a conflict that she had in the church.
My W was raised around this undesirable behavior and is just acting like her mom. Another key fact is that my W was molested by her adopted brother at a young age. Her brother is about 6 years older. She has alot of issues wrong with her on top of having to present herself a certain way due to being a PK. At this point, W just wants control of her own life and is being self centered.
I was warned by many people not to M her my W, but I didn't see the other side of her until I got M. Her mom's BF told me about her and even her mom tried to warn my mom about her when she came over that day.
Through this experience, I have grown closer to Jesus though. I would have been at this point without this trial. I discerned alot of things, but I continued to allow her to run over me which was sad. I keep believing for the impossible holding on to my W. God wanted me to let her go so he could work. I still rejoice because I know God has something mighty for me.
I left out alot of details in my intial post because it so much. I came off as being more foolish that I was. I have to admit that I was allowing her to treat me like a doormat. I have totally detached now though.
This board is truely a blessing to many people that are going through trials of D. I thank you for standing with me during this time in my life and also for your prayings. I will suffer for Christ's sake, but I will be use his wisdom. You are right...Jesus wasn't a wimp. He is the King of Kings. We need to walk in the authority that he has given us and not be wimps.
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".
