Prematurely called divorce busted, worse now

[Gardener]

Orich,
fwiw and imho,

Here is a question, how do you handle setbacks? I don't know how well my DBing is going, as I haven't seen any real reaction from W.

But most of your DBing is for you, right? Like going from couch potato to record-breaking gym star? That's (a damn good) part of your DBing, as is so much more, right? Make a list of your DB successes.

I typed back that I thought she had gotten them, then forgot about it by the time we got to the register. She said the boys wanted their bagels, and now they can't have them.
Is there something at this point I should do or say?

I would resend your original reply word for word. And then ignore any further communication on that subject.