Prematurely called divorce busted, worse now

[Orich]

Thanks guys.
The stuff that I am carrying is difficult, but not life-threatening yet. I think a lot of it comes down to my co-dependancy. In other words, holding on looking for last threads of hope for our M because the M is what I base my self-worth on, rather than basing my M on my self-worth, if that makes sense. I have stated before, if I know there is hope I can hold on for as much time as it takes. I still don't want to give up on this M.
One thing the IC did say was that maybe she is stuck herself, not sure what to do, and by confronting her, it might be a kick in the rear-end she needs to look at the M and realize it is not worth losing.