[saffie]

Doc,

I think you probably got the picture from what the girls have been telling you on here about the swimsuit thing by now.

When she did what she did with OM whilst 'posing' for the photo's she probably felt like she did when she knew him when she was much younger. When she actually saw the photo's I am sure she felt really bad. You need to forget them.....and if my memory serves me right hasn't she put on more weight since then?

I am a size 4/6 US size and I have trouble wearing a swim suit. I feel as though my stomach is ugly from having kids and I have stretch marks etc. My H say's he worries because I am too thin but I don't see it. What I see are my beautiful D's next to me with their flat stomachs and lovely skin....and I feel so old and ugly. So what if my H likes what he see's.....I don't, and I worry what other people are going to think when they see me.....it just makes me uncomfortable.

This is going to be a hard nut to crack with your W.