Hey MOM....I know you said it drove your H crazy wondering what you're doing but did he tell you at the time that he wanted you to do and he was glad you were going out... my H told me I needed to date that if I found someone he would shake his hand....so that made me sad....that just told me he was truly done...or is it just another MLC Phrase?
and the email I got yesterday (it was so cold and businesslike) was gutwrenching....didn't say much but what it did say tore my heart out...then I talked to him on the phone and he wants us to sit down and talk this over in person...he says he wants to take careof me and the kids....WTF? He may be getting pressure from OW....I don't know...but he is so calm and claims he's doing whats best for me and the kids...wants to sit down and discuss money and what I should receive...I said I could not do that, that I would contact my attorney,.then he got mad that I was wasting what little money we had, that I will never get more than half of his money...it's just the law he said....well....the law SUCKS!! We chose for me to stay home and I want to live the same way I've lived for the past 30 years....this was HIS choice not mine...I tried to explain that but it was like talking to a brick....
He did admit however that he can't think about our girls not talking to him because it does hurt him, and if he dwelled on it he wouldn't be able to function....
I'm so confused.....
Treese
Last edited by Treese; 07/03/0912:35 PM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
