Be careful who you listen to on this site. As you read in Pearl's thread, others tried to tell her some of the same things Stuck said to you. Don't let it bother you... We can call it anything you want.. Games, immature, reality, whatever...
The key is doing what works to get them back or learn how to move on and not have to be going through this for two years and still be in the same place....
The approach you are taking now is the one that works the BEST. By FAR.. I have been at this for a LONG time. Your approach now is the wisest direction. You are doing fine. Let her come to you. Works MUCH better that way....
If and when you do talk to her again (and you WILL) and she mentions the "way to be a friend" thing again, just make LIGHT of it and duck and dodge and change the subject.....
Then keep right on doing what you have been doing...
You are doing fine. Let her come to you. Works MUCH better that way....