Well heck ya, your tumor would play a part in the dynamics of your M.... a big one! Treatments have come a long way, and it's good your able to be at home during yours. It's far less stressfull.

As for my kids, ahh, does red headed step child bring an image? Jane treats my children, especially S as if they should cowtow to her children, and take care of their every need. Jane buys for her kids while allowing my two to watch.

So, now S has to not only watch Grandpa, he has to be the taxi, chef, and attendant for Jane's youngest two, Her D, can drive herself, but she won't lift a finger to help. My D is working 4 and sometimes 5 days a week now, and doesn't think she needs to help around the house as much as she could. (My) D has gone numb, she has broken off her relationship with her boyfriend of over a year, as she also finds it difficult to talk to me, for she says it makes her terribly homesick, as she has a feeling she isn't coming home after the summer.

That's it in a nut shell.... Just wish I could change things. Heard from another woman with children, who happens to have the same set up I have, same Judge, same opposing counsel, she has no child support, hasn't received anything that was written for her in her divorce decree, and she too is about to loose residential custody of her children, after being a stay at home mom before the divorce. Her ex (divorce final three years ago) has all the money and all the control.

So, it's not just me, and we (this lady and I) feel this Judge is anti woman, anti children, and should be held responsible for the child abuse he administers.

Pissy? Yes, I am! But I'm trying to make it a better day.

Take care of you....


Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........