Renee, first good for you on a couple of points! It is your house and your rules! Stand by your guns with son! Make him stay with his dad for awhile, let him worry about a few things! Second, I also agree with you about the letter about the house thing, if it was important, he should have at least mailed it to you. As far as me being right about your H being a MLCer or WAS, well Renee, I am wrong a lot, if you think he is in MLC, then maybe he is. You know him much better than I do.