It does matter aliveandkicking! If he was really in love with someone else, he would drop you like a hot rock! He hasn't done that!
What if as Sandi says, it is just a control issue? He is getting off on having the upper hand. He feels that I was in control in the R and he felt like sh*t about himself and now this is "payback". I'm not mind-reading, I am piecing together his words.
Regardless...you're still in his thoughts...and you still matter to him! This IS NOT indifference!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
