So it begins to bring my wife home

[MrBond]

I don't know. some of the cockiness you're showing sounds a little immature. Remember how you said you relate to 20 year olds? Well some of the game playing that you're doing sure sounds like it.

I'm not saying you should answer all her calls, but a couple of live interactions wouldn't have been so bad.

It doesn't sound like you're serious about saving your R. Just playing games with her. The problem is that if you keep having that cocky attitude if she comes back, when her maturity level exceeds yours, she's going to leave again.

Just my 2 cents.