Don't we all need validation ... a feeling of being heard and understood. But, it is so difficult with someone in the middle of MLC. So, that's where 'act as if' comes into play, I guess. Just a general thought. LOL
So sorry about the financial sitch ... it's hitting the world like it's nobody's business.
Good luck.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim