>> Although I would love to meet another woman and share intimacy again....I continue focused on my children.
That's the sensible/responsible/honorable thing to do. Why get yourself in more trouble even before you can get out of the mess you're in already? While you can't control what the WA does and continues to do, I see many LBH's get into dating and sexual intimacy far too quickly than is good for them or the kids. There seems to be this trend that finding someone else to get involved with is the way to happiness; it seems to be a rush for a while then reality hits - different values, family background, kids, etc.
