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[AliSuddenly]

Hey T,
Ditto to K.. keep working out what you really want to do in life, afterall.. B is VERY good at chasing his dreams and making things happen, with his quartet and his Bluegrass band and living where he needs to be living.. so thats bound to be something he would find attractive in a potential partner and its also going to be what you need!

Ditto to getting on FB.. I kept saying, as long as you go on there as Transformer and use a random email address to register, noone will ever know its you! I dont have any of my RL peeps on my DB FB page.

And I agree with Lisa.. I was pretty stunned he sent you such a warm follow up message. Yuo said that your friend thinks B has no idea you are still into him and that this upset you.. why did it upset you? I was kind of wondering the same thing.. as you havent said a word to him since the breakup via webcam about your feelings for him, he may well be a little confused about your motives. But then he did state a boundary back in January when he said he just wanted to keep things friendly (?) so maybe he was aware..but if he is, he is doing a good job of keeping hte contact going, so he clearly wants you in his life still in some capacity !!

I still vote for snooping on his FB page to see what he's up to, but I know you are too 'controlled' to go there !!!!

Al xxx