Creed thank you for taking the time to post to me. Yes our son sometimes says things that makes his dad angry at me. I think son is so confused that sometimes he doesnt know what to say. I feel sorry for him in that respect. He is so afraid of losing his dad forever that he will go to any length to please him, including hurting me. Why? I think because he feels safe with me and he knows I would never leave him. I hug him, I kiss him and tell him constantly how much I love and care about him. I try to never say anything bad about his dad. In fact, I tell him I love his dad and his dad is just being overtook by the devil right now. I miss my son soooooo much not being in the house. A couple of times I almost forgot he was gone. My son told me today, mom this might be what I needed. It might be what GOD wanted. I have to grow up sometime. Son has a good head on his shoulders and can be sooo very smart. BUT every now and then his dads attitude shows and its not nice.
Someone told me today, Renee your xh has not changed. You are just now seeing him for the way he treated others. He said I saw a side of him nobody else did, and now I am seeing what everyone else sees. He is probably right. My xh did walk away, (I will give you that braveheart), BUT I believe he is having a crisis and at midlife. No one will make be believe any different. I know this doesnt mean he will come back someday, but I do believe its a crisis, too much has happened. Braveheart says because he divorced me so quick it wasnt, but I believe different. Sorry braveheart I am not saying you are wrong, I am just saying I believe you are 50% right. ............it doesnt matter, he is gone for now or always.
Snodderly I checked out "The Script".....very interesting and sounds just like my xh.
I am not saying you are wrong, I am just saying I believe you are 50% right. 
............it doesnt matter, he is gone for now or always.
