It is 1:30 and I am still awake. Got back at 12:15 from SIL/BIL "100 Year Party". Both turned 40 this year and they have been married for 20 years, 40+40+20=100...
They have been married 20 years and have two awesome girls, 17 and 13. Both girls are pretty, smart, athletic, involved in extra-curriculars, active at church, etc etc. So proud of them and their commitments! I heard SIL point me out to someone as "there's my brother's wife"...I know I am still his wife but with us separated it was strange to hear it.
Dan is being a little random, he left a msg on the machine last night "called to tell everyone I love them"...the last couple times before that he said he was calling to tell the kids goodnight/ILY...
Then I got a text from him 15 minutes ago. At 1:20 am?? Said "I left my phone charger at the plant. My ph will die soon, maybe. If you can't get through on it. Call the Black foot inn. 555-555-5555. Room xyz."
Thing is, he checks out tomorrow morning. When between 1:20 and 8 am was I going to call him??
In related news, I am strengthening my resolve to enforce boundaries with Dan. It is tough b/c part of me really wants to spend time with him. B/c I love him, duh. And it is 4th of July weekend, I bought some fun small firework stuff to do with the kids, they picked out things with me at the firework store that they want to light with their dad, too. But I will just divide the fireworks into 2 bags and leave them stuff to do with Dan. It is about 18 months past the time I needed to draw a better line in the sand...
And it is 4th of July weekend, I bought some fun small firework stuff to do with the kids, they picked out things with me at the firework store that they want to light with their dad, too. But I will just divide the fireworks into 2 bags and leave them stuff to do with Dan. It is about 18 months past the time I needed to draw a better line in the sand...
