I had the talk tonight after my excellent golf lesson and she took it very well. And she still wants to go on the vacation in Hawaii. She asked about being friends and I said that is no problem, but to keep in mind that once one of us meets and falls in love with someone new that it is usually best to drift apart. She says that her parents have someone lined up for her in Vietnam, but she still has a poor attitude about asian men and is not excited to meet him. I pointed out that her brothers who I have met are all good guys.