IMHO, I think not. Sandi gave me some really good advice once, said, if you are not sure what to do, do nothing. You can always email him next week.
hang in there, I know your head is spinning right now.
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
