What do you think is the best way to respond when S comments on the different attitude and perhaps tries to provoke you out of it?
I think that with your H it is wanting the "control" in the stitch. You gave a good example in one of your posts:
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Why does H text me constantly (today was my day to get away without kiddos), so provocative...why does he want my attention even though he is insistent that we are through? THis stuff is not cute, sexual innuendo, telling me I need to call him asap (scaring the sh*t out of me) for a non-emergency. I'm tired.
He is driving you crazy and will be determined to get some kind of a reponse from you. To ignore him......pull away from him....be indifferent, would probably be something that would be very hard for him b/c he would feel that he's losing control over you and the stitch. All of these things he's doing with constanst stupid "excuses" to get your attention and these immature actions on his part......IMHO is a man who wants to dangle you like a puppet. He is the master and you are the puppet moving to the strings he controls. That is why you are worn out. Bless your heart!
Hope you can get some rest but it's a holiday weekend.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
