I'm going with Sandi on this one BIG TIME.....everything she said...DITTO.
 Stop staring at your wife. Stop having expectations and hopes...which you obviously do.... It would drive me crazy and AWAY....it is NOT detaching and it is manipulating. What about the whole "turning it over to God" thing??
j-

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change