I am so proud of you! I see your posts on other people's threads and you are giving excellent advice. There are a few people that I would almost like to make them our DB Posters or something....and you are certainly amoung those. I believe you are a great role model of showing how a LBH uses the DB techniqes on a daily basis. Yes, you still have those hurtful moments that you have to get through. But I think you are using your brain to realize what she is going through and what she has to work out in her own mind. It is truly amazing the changes you've made! It goes to prove that a person "can" change if they want to badly enough. You are an example of that and I would say that the people here at the DB board have been very happy and pleased with your progress.
I want you to know if I don't come back to your thread as often as I use to, it's b/c I know you are doing what you need to do and that you are going to make it. It's not b/c I have forsaken you by any means. I'm so proud each time I read one of your posts on another thread b/c it shows how far you've come and what you've learned. I think you are a hero in many ways, Antlers. I hope you can see yourself as being successful and that your self-esteem is very healthy. You have worked so hard....and still working every day! I am blown away at how many miles you are putting in! WOW!
I'm always glad to hear from you when you come to my thread. I appreciate your concern about my health. I am do a little better and have hopes of improving even more.
Hope you have a good week and I'll be checking in with you.
Take care, Sandi
Hello Sandi!
The kiddos and I just got back from 3 nights at Great Wolf Lodge in Texas. It was super! The hotel was super nice, and the indoor waterpark is great. The kids had a blast. I could kick back and relax, and just let them run and play as much as they wanted...and they did! I wore them completely out on a daily basis, both in Colorado and in Texas! I've gotta go back to work tomorrow. The kiddos went back to their mom's tonight. We had a couple of good vacations. So nice to hear from you!
TTYL, antlers
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
I believe you are a great role model of showing how a LBH uses the DB techniqes on a daily basis. Yes, you still have those hurtful moments that you have to get through. But I think you are using your brain to realize what she is going through and what she has to work out in her own mind. It is truly amazing the changes you've made! It goes to prove that a person "can" change if they want to badly enough. You are an example of that and I would say that the people here at the DB board have been very happy and pleased with your progress. 
