AAK. I haven't checked in in awhile. OMG! A couple of questions..(Sorry for typos - on my phone and I can't see as well!)
#1 - was this man ever a good dad? #e - how is he with the kids now? Natural? Disneyland dad? #3 - has he admitted to being intimate with someone else? #4 - CA MUST have decent alimony/support laws. Have you done the homework? Tou are WAY too smart and good to be sttaying with this chaos because of money, and I can't believe his (lving in friends mansionsay lifestyle can last for long...
You are just plain too good for this f'n chump! You have yound boys that need a dad AND mom, and I can bet you're just adorable... You will move on and love, live and enjoy again. I'm not a fan of the H. He sounds like my D18 and friends. Selfish, arrogant,f'n egocentric. God! He's a H and Father! Maybe he needs a new career.
Sorry, but you are way too good.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.