This is a very interesting thread. I've been over a few situations in the last few days, both on here and on MB where a man has successfully restored his marriage with an adulterous wife who's left.
In every case, with no exceptions the man has completely detached and moved on for a period of time (either through a Plan B or from actually moving on) before the wife has had second thoughts and earnestly returned to the marriage.
I would be interested to know if this is consistent with your own observations. I know Puppy filed for divorce, you yourself moved on also.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
