In that case your W didn't change. She's exactly how she told you she was. I think that's your problem right there. You thought she "somehow" changed into this horrible person who cut you out and only thinks of herself. So far, everything you've described is exactly how she is.

I keep going back to that list because she was so clear as to what you had to clean up. But so far I haven't seen you address that at all. I think you may be afraid to confront your insecurities which she spelled out in detail to you.

I would love to have my W write out a list of issues rather than just telling me "i just don't love you anymore."

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER