What to do when Husband's Gone & Makes No Contact?

[beepee]

wifey:
thanks for all your motivation.
im going to try really hard to keep hope alive, i know i have to. and i know i have to work really hard on myself and to get better. i know how bad my depression was and is and how he wasnt able to handle it.

i know you say this is how he feels now but when someone tells you repeatedly that there is no chance, it really hits you hard. i would even find it extremely hard if he said i want to be with you but not now. i know this will take time..so much time and i know i have to be patient. i love him too much to just give up that easily.

in regards to writing an email back to him saying I LOVE YOU, i wasnt sure if that was the right thing to do. the book said to go dark and i wasnt sure writing back would be a good idea. and it also tells you not to say ILY to your spouse.. but then again saying i love you back and nothing more is keeping it simple which DR suggests. so i am a bit confused over what i should do and what the best thing to do is..

i appreciate your advice very much wifey and no disrespect at all, please dont take this the wrong way, but i would love to hear other peoples opinions on this, should i email back telling him i love him even tho DR says not to say it? i would love any and all advice.