Jumping in (1st post)

[Gardener]

Keep things low key. Don't be the fool that rushes in. Little butterfly wing of progress, most notably with you laying down the no R talk boundaries.

Don't over-react. Cool as a cucumber.

And make the invite if you want to go, great, if you don't that is fine, going anyways.

Thanks, Wifey. I am. Real low key. Often resisting the urge to say "Let's talk." since we really haven't. In months. Y'see, sometimes I want to do things differently since I think our sitch is so different. No anger, bitterness, etc...just...just withered. But then I remember Gypsy reminding me of the 48 hour rule and I invoke it.

Am reading Walk Out Woman, by Steve Stephens and Alice Gray, recommended by Sandi2 a couple of days ago. It is great. It is sad. More scales falling from my eyes.