my H just emailed me a very very long goodbye letter.. he said that he just can't be with me and the decision to divorce is final..i dont have the faith anymore.
i responded to him by saying that i think we can work it out but if thats what he wants..then i have to respect his wishes. i dont know if that was the right thing to say but im just hopeless at this point. hes saying theres no way we're getting back together after everything we've been through.
why should i even continue with this now, theres no hope left.. please help me..someone please help...im going mad now..
beepee,
If I had a dollar for every goodbye letter or conversation my H and I have had over the year plus since the bomb I could go away and stay in a hotel for the weekend. This is what he is saying now because that is what he thinks. That is what he thinks right now.
Focus beepee. Work on getting stronger, its too early to let every little thing he says upset the apple cart. I know it hurts. Remember you have time.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
